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Woman cited for spanking her child

July 20th 2008 22:31
A mother in Idaho was cited for spanking her child in public.

Several witnesses thought she was too difficult on her 2-year-old during a parade and called for police.

The mother claims that the child was trying to run into the street and was not listening. She says she gave her a swat on the diaper to get her attention.

Officers said that there were no marks on the child, but cited the woman anyway and she now has to appear in court.


No matter what your personal opinion is of spanking, it is not illegal. The harmfulness of non-injuring spanking is in question as we are now seeing the results of the first generation to rebuke it as a tool for discipline. With no physical injury to the child and mental injury a questionable topic, there is no justification for a decision such as this.
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Comment by Damo

July 21st 2008 00:59
What if I spank myself?

Do I go to prison?

Comment by Josie

July 21st 2008 03:06
Hmm...I guess it depends on it you decide to report yourself for self-abuse- Unless big brother sees you doing it and calls the cops on you!

thanks for reading Damo!

Comment by Damo

July 21st 2008 04:55
It's Okay Josie,
These stories often just crack me.

There is whole world out there of people acting like dictators over children are not their own. It is more of a revenge thing in some cases.

Comment by Confusion at Random

July 21st 2008 06:14
I don't particularly agree with spanking, but I have never been a mother or babysitter, so that might cloud my judgement.

I have encountered children who are very uncooporative that I have seen them get spanked. In regards to those children, I have never seen spanking actually work as a form of punishment.

I think time-out's are more effective.

Comment by Cheryl J

July 21st 2008 09:29
The world has gone 'politically correct' mad. I was spanked when I was a child and I'm not in the least bit disturbed or feel abused. Sometimes a short slap is enough to stop a child that is throwing a tantrum in its tracks. As long as implements like belts or wooden spoons etc are used, a slap on the bum never hurt anybody!

Comment by Lester Caudill

July 21st 2008 10:59
Hey Josie spanking is not abuse, it's a form of discipline to teach children to behave. Cheryl is right the world has gone politically correct. Parents have little control on their kids, as big brother wants more control over them. I was spanked when I was a child, and I spank my kids as a parent I feel it is my right to raise my kids the best way I see fit. I also use time outs, and groundings. It all depends on the situation.

I do not support child abuse in any way, I have seen the results of it. When I was a child I went to school with a brother and sister that were living with their grandparents, they would come to school with welts on their backs, now that was child abuse.


Comment by TimmyH

July 21st 2008 11:12
Has anyone spoken to a 12 year old lately?
They all need to be spanked...getting rid of the cane in school was the worst idea in the history of Australian Education!!!

Comment by Josie

July 21st 2008 12:50
Lester- I totally agree that it is not abuse. I've personally used it as a last resort when my kids are doing something dangerous. I ws spanked as a child and am no worse for the wear. I think it can be abused just like any other tool, but it doesn't sound like this mother was abusing it. I feel very badly for her that she fears losing her children over the form of discipline she chose to use in what could be a dangerous situation (child running into the street).
As a parent, it really stinks to think that somebody is always watching and listening to you- judging you.

Comment by Lester Caudill

July 21st 2008 18:16
I agree, but it seems the ones judging and complaining are the ones that don't have any kids.

Comment by Bethany

July 21st 2008 20:07
You know, a few years ago a little girl in Oklahoma was killed by her step-father in one of the many beatings that he administered to her, and although DHS was keeping an eye on her, she died anyways.
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But a woman in Idaho gets a ticket for doing something non-injurious that nobody could prove.

I'm gonna go sit in the tub for a little while, I think.

Comment by RubySoho

July 22nd 2008 01:12
I agree, but it seems the ones judging and complaining are the ones that don't have any kids.

Oh the irony! The irony! The irony!


Just a wacky thought, but why don't we see how this story pans out before we slam the eight witnesses who say the mother was too harsh on the kid and the authorities who are just trying to look out for the children? Think of the children everybody. After all, I'm sure that toddler wasn't able to give her consent to being smacked around by her mother who could probably do well to pick on someone her own size.

Comment by Josie

July 22nd 2008 02:57
I do think that the story has to play out to see what happens, but I brought it to attention because the topic is one that concerns me as a parent.

One problem I've seen a bit of lately is that everyone wants to give their opinions on how others should be raising their children and like Lester said, these people usually don't have children of their own. It is much easier to be an imaginary parent than a real one.

As far as this story in particular...If you've ever been around a toddler you would know that they get bruises and red marks very easily. My daughter can literally run into the soft couch and have a red mark on her head. If there was no red mark on the child as indicated by the officer, I highly doubt that the swat was worthy of a call to the police.

What concerns me is that now it will be a story of 8 vs 1 where those 8 people may have been one group together who are like minded about spanking- 8 people who are potentially wrong about how severe the situation was. If this parent loses her children over the opinions of others when there was no real injury, I find it very sad. I'm curious to know if there were witnesses in the audience that would speak for the mother? With a huge crowd for a parade, I would imagine that more than 8 people were around...

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